Becoming a more confident version of yourself will increase your mental wellbeing and put you on the road to making the most out of your life and the opportunities it presents. Confidence should not be confused with arrogance and becoming confident doesn’t mean you will become a different person. It’s still you – just a better version of yourself.
Get a Law Degree
There’s no better way to gain confidence than learning new skills and finding a career that brings out the best in you. Lawyers are known for their confidence but that comes with years of training and self-belief through the learning process they have been through. Going to school and gaining a law degree is the ultimate act in confidence building. If you are worried about financing a degree, private lenders offer student loans that have a budget based repayment plan after graduation.
Be Honest with Yourself
The best place to start is with some introspection. Sit down and think and write down the reasons you feel you are not confident now. When you have a list of reasons, look at how that manifests itself in everyday life. Once you are fully aware of why and how your confidence is affected, it is far easier to confront the issues head on and start to improve your self-worth. This will require complete honesty, but ultimately will be of benefit in your journey to finding confidence.
Any form of exercise is a great way to improve your confidence. You are making the effort to get yourself into better shape so that you can look and feel better. Working out doesn’t mean you have to run straight to the gym and start lifting heavy weights. If you sit at a desk all day you can start with easy exercises you can do at work to stretch your muscles and move your body in preparation for more impactful workouts down the road. Consider running or doing yoga at home and you will very quickly see and feel the results. This will show in your interactions with people as your confidence rises and those around you notice.
Stop Comparing Yourself
It’s hard not to compare yourself to others. If you’ve grown up in an environment where you were surrounded by siblings or with others at school, there is a relentless need for us to assess our abilities against those of others. The truth is you don’t have to do that. It is only to your detriment. When you start to appreciate yourself for who you are and that what others do and achieve is completely irrelevant to your own success and life, you will become more comfortable and confident within yourself.
Make Eye Contact
This will be difficult when starting out and it will, at times, make you feel uncomfortable. However, it is one of the best ways to transmit the confidence and self-belief you have. Maintaining eye contact does not entail you staring wide eyed at someone. It means you should keep eye contact for most of the time during an interaction. Eyes will naturally blink or occasionally stray, this is healthy but constantly looking away does not exude confidence and is a big sign that you lack self-belief.
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