Remember the oscars slap heard ’round the world last month? Now we have the process serving seen ’round the world: Olivia Wildeonstage at CinemaCon in Las Vegasgot slapped, so to speak, by a process server as she talked about her latest movie.
A woman, as yet unidentified but wearing a mask and a CinemaCon credential, handed Wilde a manila envelope marked “Personal and Confidential,” which contained what turned out to be legal papers regarding the custody of her two kids with “Ted Lasso” star Jason Sudeikis.
Instead of setting the envelope aside, the actress/director opened it in front of thousands in the CinemaCon audience, an annual conference where Hollywood rolls out previews of coming attractions for movie theater owners.
“Right. Got it,” she said. Then she continued pitching the trailer for her new movie, “Don’t Worry Darling,” which arrives in theaters Sept. 23. The movie stars Harry Styles, with whom she’s been photographed over the past year, sparking speculation they’re a couple.
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Yikes. First off, who knew there was even an issue between Wilde, 38, and Sudeikis, 46, over the custody of their children? It’s not like they’re known in Hollywood as another ex-couple like Angelina Jolie and Brad Pittwho have been sniping at each other in court for years over their children.
Second, process serving is a necessary element of the legal system rooted in constitutional rights to due process. But why was it necessary to serve Wilde is Este fashionable? How was this good for the image of Sudeikis and his lawyer for him, for the image of process servers or for CinemaCon’s apparently patchy security measures?
If the plan was to leverage an early, better position for Sudeikis in a legal battle over, say, where the kids will live, well, how is that working out given the mantle of sympathy draping over Wildeat least on social media?
“The larger issue is what the heck?! Out of the gate, it’s terrible optics,” says Leslie Barbara, head of the matrimonial department of the New York firm Davidoff Hutcher & Citron, who has 30 years of experience handling divorces of rich people and celebrities. “I couldn’t think of a worse way to handle service.”
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On the other hand, Barbara says, it’s not unprecedented. One of her partners de ella, she said, knew of a case where a bride was served with legal papers at her own wedding. Ouch.
Sudeikis and Wilde, who were engaged for seven years before their split in November 2020, share son Otis, 8, and daughter Daisy, 5.
On Wednesday, Sudeikis let it be known that he wasn’t aware when or where the papers would be delivered to Wilde and that he would never approve of serving her in this manner.
If that’s true, Barbara says, “Obviously there’s been an unacceptable breakdown in communication between (Sudeikis and his lawyer). Something went awry. Why did it have to be in the middle of her presentation? Couldn’t it wait until she got off stage? This was completely unnecessary.”
Ideally, in civil proceedings, attorneys and clients are supposed to be in close communication about such matters as how to serve papers, Barbara says. “It’s not dignified to have someone jump out of a bush, we’d rather do this in a civilized way,” she says.
But sometimes it’s just not possible, especially when it comes to serving celebrities, who may be just as resistant to receiving legal documents as regular schmoes but have more resources to avoid it, says Jillina Kwiatkowskipresident of the National Association of Professional Process Servers, who has a process serving business in Buffalo, NY
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Details of the rules may differ from state to state (in New York for instance, you can’t serve on Sundays, says Barbara), but one rule everywhere is that process servers can’t impersonate a cop to serve papers, says Kwiatkowski.
Also, she says service has to be in person and in hand. But A-listers are hard to get close enough to in order to serve, she says, so all’s fair in love, war and process serving. Remember, she says, we don’t know what led up to the process server doing it in this fashion.
“I’m assuming this was not the way (the server) went about it at first, and she probably tried to get closer earlier and couldn’t and this was the way she found she could get to (Wilde) in a personal manner ,” Kwiatkowski says. “I’ve heard of servers going to book signings, buying and standing in line, when dealing with people in the public eye. You sometimes have to get crafty, it’s the name of the game” in process serving.
“You can run but you can’t hide,” she says. Ace Prince Andrew found out last year when he tried to avoid being served with an American sex-abuse lawsuit at his Royal Lodge residence behind the gates of Windsor Castle. (The papers were left at his home by an English process server and an English court declared that it was proper service.)
Still, Kwiatkowski adds, this way wouldn’t be her first try at attempting to serve anyone. Process servers for years have lamented their image in popular culture as something of a joke; now this episode will add to the misimpressions.
“It’s a profession and most people don’t realize that we’re performing due process” by notifying people they’re being sued, she says. “It comes across as kind of a joke and it’s really not… It’s a little bit sad that people don’t understand how important it is.”
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And what about CinemaCon’s role in all this? How did the process server acquire a credential? So far, no one has addressed that, but The Hollywood Reporter says officials plan to take a closer look at the conference’s security protocols.
The Wrap Up podcast on Thursday interviewed John Fithian, the National Association of Theater Owners president and CEO, who said officials still don’t know who the server was or how she became a registered attendee of the show.
“It’s unfortunate,” he told the podcast, noting it’s never happened before in the show’s 30-year history. “And so, we have re-evaluated our protocols, and we’ve already changed right here at the show. We’ve now got security at the front of the stage.”
Too late for Wilde.
Contributing: Patrick Ryan and Charles Trepany, USA TODAY
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