Sunday, February 28

Who is the angry uncle in black? Unfortunately, it was inevitable that a referee would break | Football


TO A few years ago, during a pre-season friendly in the Southern Amateur League, the referee started with one of our players. It was quite a shock. It had been a smug affair – a few late challenges, everyone was a bit hot, tired, and off the beat. As in all the games I have played in the last two decades, the referee was getting a bit of a stick, he was making mistakes, we were making mistakes, but nothing out of the ordinary.

And then it happened. My center-middle was cut from behind as he advanced with the ball. Sitting on the court yelled one of the classics: “Ref, how many more times?” And that was it. The combustible officer lost it completely.

“That’s all. Your. I. Let’s go. “All this accompanied by three direct points of the index finger. To the player in question:” You “. To himself:” I “. And then the terrain, the proposed place for the fight:” Let’s go. “This game it’s over, “he shouted later.

A couple of players stepped between the irate officer and our bewildered player, he calmed down and we moved on. And from that moment something quite strange happened. The game was played in a kind of beautiful no-man’s-land spirit on Christmas Day. “I’m sure I came up with it.” “Not honestly referee, it’s a corner.” “No, you have that … not you … not honestly … I insist.”

I have not seen players of any level behave better, not even in charity games. Perhaps it was a calculated moment of genius, to unite both teams against a common enemy. Or was he just a really tense man on the edge of his bonds.

It was interesting how different it felt to see the man in authority lose it compared to any number of players I have seen push each other or face the deer in heat, their foreheads linked by an invisible force field, before one gives in and collapses to the ground.

It’s no wonder then that referee Darren Drysdale’s tense lean toward Ipswich’s Alan Judge on Tuesday night made headlines. Like Keith Hackett wrote in the Telegraph: “I never would have expected that kind of behavior from Darren. I have known him for a long time and I have always considered him calm and controlled ”. He’s not that type of player, I mean the referee, Jeff.

The interesting question is which referee would Hackett have expected it from? What is Craig Pawson’s wick like? Is it only a matter of time before Trevor Kettle scores a winger? There has been a feeling in the reaction that this was going to happen at some point. Faced with pressure, abuse, scrutiny by the referees, one of them would have a Michael Douglas Falling Down Moment. We should be thankful that it was Drysdale on a cold Tuesday on Portman Road with nothing but a firm step towards a footballer and not David Coote taking an uzi to a wall mounted neon Subway menu on his way home from a particular VAR. tense. Premier League game.

Darren Drysdale drives Flynn Downes out of Ipswich during Tuesday's eventful game, at least for the referee, against Northampton at Portman Road on Tuesday.
Darren Drysdale drives Flynn Downes out of Ipswich during Tuesday’s eventful game, at least for the referee, against Northampton at Portman Road on Tuesday. Photograph: Pete Norton / Getty Images

Drysdale agrees he made a mistake and will not referee this weekend. Had it been the other way around, there would be little sympathy for the player. You should get a ban of some kind, but let’s not overdo it.

What’s been interesting, and quite refreshing, is how much sympathy he and the referees in general have received since then. Many people sent me the images on Twitter, but no one asked to be banished from soccer forever. An Ipswich fan was delighted that something interesting had happened on Portman Road for the first time in years.

And Drysdale week is worth considering. A brief loss of control and suddenly you are broadcast all over the world, in newspaper columns like this, worried that a career you have built for years may disappear; having to deal with the reaction of entering your other workplace for the first time afterwards, in addition to the difficult conversations with the PGMOL. You have to hope that he has good people around him and the perspective to realize that what he did was not the end of the world, and that next week we will be talking about parish councils or Zoom cat filters again while he can. serve your punishment and return to refereeing.

It hasn’t even been two weeks since Mike Dean pulled out of a game due to online abuse. And maybe it’s worth taking a step back and considering the language that officials have to grapple with, that we, and they accept, that has become part of the game. It is what it is. You cannot change it.

At TalkSport last week, Dean Ashton was scathing in his assessment of how we all treat officials. “The abuse that the referees receive from the players, from the coaching staff, from the fans when they are on the ground, from the parents when they are in football for 10 years that I have seen is disgusting. We should be absolutely ashamed of how our sport acts towards our officials when you watch other sports. I am ashamed of how he used to talk to the referees. We can’t say, ‘Oh, rugby is a gentlemen’s game and it’s a private school game, and they’re raised in a different way, and we’re working-class so we can talk however we want and it’s okay for us to abuse the referees’. Well, it isn’t. It’s time for all of us to look at ourselves and say this has to end. The referee is just a human being in the middle of the field doing an incredibly difficult job ”.

As someone who has complained about umpires for years, I know I should stop. But I have never abused one. And fewer people do it in my league because of a very simple change: sin containers.

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Comparisons between amateur and professional play are usually fatuous: the fanciful try to compare what they do in the park to the pressures, pace, and money of the elite. It is the same game but it is completely different. However, sin containers work. Since they were introduced a few seasons ago, if you insult the referee, he can reserve it and you leave for 10 minutes. It is simple.

The law is used inconsistently at our level, but it has still made a difference. There is a great reluctance to mess with the game, to change what has been the same for years and years. But if we want to stop decades of abuse for someone trying to do their job, then there is a simple solution.

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